Finding God
in Our Pain

Guest, Melinda Patrick shares a thoughtful conversation about her experiences as a mother of a daughter who identifies as LGBTQ. Melinda delves into practical advice for parents struggling with similar situations, including the necessity of not trying to “fix” their children but instead loving them and supporting them through their journey. Melinda recounts how her own journey has deepened her faith and transformed her understanding of God’s love and grace. The conversation underscores the importance of trusting God with the ultimate responsibility for their children’s lives and the significance of pursuing Jesus above all else. Melinda also highlights the need for community and resources to support parents, emphasizing that healing and transformation are long-term processes guided by faith and God’s timing.

In this episode, host Sherrie Pilkington explores the profound impact of the Bible study titled “Do You Love Me? Exploring Our Relationships with God and Others” by Debbie Swindall, published by Grafted Life Ministries. Sherrie shares how the study, facilitated by her friend Amy Heilman from Breathe Deep Ministries, has deepened her intimacy with God, highlighting the simplicity yet profound nature of knowing God. Sherry emphasizes that true spiritual growth and healing come from intentionally making time to engage with God, particularly in moments of pain and suffering. She discusses her personal journey of finding healing through Theophastic Prayer and the importance of being still to hear God’s voice, especially in times of emotional and mental struggle.

Lindsey shares her story of overcoming a challenging past marred by childhood trauma, including her father’s sudden departure and subsequent sexual abuse by him. She describes how these early experiences impacted her mental health and self-worth, leading to severe anxiety, depression, and difficulty in forming healthy relationships. Lindsey also discusses her struggles in an abusive marriage, her journey through various forms of therapy, and her eventual realization that only through Jesus could she find true healing and freedom from shame.

Logan Hufford shares his journey from a seemingly stable Christian upbringing to battling severe sexual addiction, including addiction to pornography and multiple affairs. He details the internal conflict he faced, particularly after getting married, as he struggled with deep self-hatred, shame, and despair. Logan emphasizes the nonlinear nature of recovery and the role of temptation in his life. He also discusses the transformative impact of entering a Christ-centered, intense recovery program, which helped him address his addiction and rebuild his life and marriage.

Bridgett Dunbar shares her journey of grief, loss, and finding hope in God’s goodness after losing her baby boy at birth. Bridgett encourages those who find themselves doing their best to navigate the devastating loss of a child. Listen in and find out how she overcame depression and doubt to ultimately surrender to God (what she thought her life should be), remarry, and become pregnant again.

In my conversation with Psychotherapist Healey Ikerd we talk about spiritual disciplines and how we can use them to heal anxiety. Healy emphasizes the importance of reading the Bible and meditating on its truths. We discuss the benefits of implementing spiritual disciplines, such as facing fears and evaluating negative thoughts with biblical truth. We also highlight the role of trust in God and the need to intentionally choose healthy thoughts and behaviors. We talk about why reading the Bible helps us think better, behave better, and ultimately feel better. I especially enjoyed the part of our conversation where Healey also addresses the tendency to make anxiety part of our identity and encourages us to replace negative thoughts with truth from God’s Word. We cannot overestimate the life changing power of scripture in transforming our thinking and helping us trust God more fully. While transformation comes with discipline and intention, Healey also touched on the importance of giving ourselves grace and getting back on track with spiritual disciplines when we get off track.

Serena from She Found His Grace discusses her ministry that offers healing and support for women and men who have experienced abortion. She emphasizes the importance of understanding God’s heart for those who have chosen abortion and the need for forgiveness and healing. Serena shares her own personal story of healing and redemption after her own abortion and highlights the power of God’s grace in transforming lives. She also discusses the impact of abortion on families and the need for support and resources in the church. Serena addresses the lies and misconceptions surrounding abortion and emphasizes the importance of giving dignity to the lives lost to abortion. She also mentions the availability of the abortion pill reversal and the need for awareness and support in this area. Serena shares the rewarding aspects of her ministry, such as seeing lives transformed and families restored, and the heartbreaking aspects, such as women choosing abortion or quitting the healing process. She encourages individuals to have courage and trust in God’s healing power and emphasizes the importance of seeking support and resources for healing after abortion.

My guest, Cindy LaFavore Yorks and I discuss the importance of understanding and managing emotions in a society that often encourages following one’s feelings. Cindy, shares her mission with her podcast, which focuses on emotional rescue and navigating through life’s challenges. She emphasizes the need to discern and react to emotions using self-reflection, transparency and the word of God. We also discuss the dangers of letting emotions guide every decision and the importance of identifying and processing emotions. Cindy talks about using an emotion wheel as a tool to help identify and understand emotions, as well as the role of prayer and the Bible in guiding emotional processing with the goal of living with more freedom and peace.